Tuesday, May 03, 2005

A Reason to FIGHT!!!

More often than not we find ourselves in the midst of battles…Battles that are of our concern, battles that we can’t give a damn about and battles that we do not know about but we know that we are part of it.. I quote my best friend saying “ Don’t start a war you can’t win”. Though he uses it in a joking manner, among friends and especially to me, but nevertheless he has a point. I mean why do we often get ourselves engulfed in a battle that we can’t win. Favorite answer to that Q will be, “because we don’t know if we can win”. Beloved Dude and Duddettes….The moment you doubt your strength, you have already lost. Then why do you still wanna go through it and end up messing things up at a greater degree when you could have put a stop to all this right from the beginning… It takes great load of maturity to take responsibilities over our actions, and I am not so surprised to say that people these days rather love to run away and break free from problems than to fight the battle..
All of us will have our battle to fight, and only we can fight the battle no one else… I cant be in your shoes but I sure can promise to walk along your side, provided of course you can promise me not to give up and be willing to suffer the consequences if you ever break the bond….Anyway I am not cruel enough to make you suffer. I think I have offset the topic a little. Lets get back on track, what I am trying to imply here is that we can often fight if we have a reason. So only indulge yourself in a battle if you have a reason to do so…Else walk away…
There’s no shame in not fighting. But there’s greater shame when you walk away from a battle that’s just heating up, just when there are souls depending on you……and you walk away. Ever wondered the misery you could cause by doing so… How many heart breaks and headaches, tears flow like river… All this because of an unsound decision… So you may ask me “Am I to keep on fighting till I die?” or “what if after I try so hard, and still fail”…
My beloved readers, there is a satisfaction in a battle hard fought regardless we loose or not…no one asking you to fight till you die, but if you have the will power you can always fight till you win…and it doesn’t matter how many times we fail and fall, what matters is how fast can we get up and ready to fight again….Also came from the same friend that I mentioned earlier..I am not motivating or suggesting something here…I am just sharing my thoughts based on what I went through, for I have fallen, struggling to rise and fight again. Can some one give me a reason to……..FIGHT?