Hi Friend, Bye GirlFriend/BoyFriend

I know i am going to talk about the very common topic among us all..And i am sure all of you are well aware of that as sson as ur eyes caught a glimpse of my title...
But why hypocracy...Dude and duddettes...cuz its the fact... Why do we go through break ups...... Simple...Cus we are not obliged to carry on the relationship....We do not take responsibilities....regardless of how much we are going to hurt some one...It doesn't matter...
Well wait till the wounded soul decided to take a parang and chop your head off...What? You going to blame him/her for reacting tat way? Mate...let us not forget that there is no measure to pain....No matter how small ur deeds can be but it always may well be a bigger heartache to the other party. So if the wounded party chops of your head.....u got no one to blame except for yourself...
So what now...Am i saying that no one should go into a relationship...Well that may be an option but then again i am sure we all are not wiliing to do that..Companionship is essential for us..It just completes the cycle...What the fuck no one nowadays are more sentimental as i am...Haha..
Have we ever wondered how the hell our parents survived 20 or 30 or even more years of relationship???Its the commitment that they get after going thru a CEREMONY called MARRIAGE....Thats it...The difference between a relationship with a boy or a girl and a MARRIAGE is just a stupid ceremony...But there is significance difference...COMMITMENT...Now commitment is not a matter of ceremony, but its more of matter of the mind....If i want to be committed i can and i will....but suprisingly these days, no one ever give a shit about commitments as it is too much of a burden to carry....too much of a hassle to understand and solve problems in a relationship....so we break loose and resort to an alternate solution....BREAK UP......
No why the hell i brought up this topic???
I found out recently that a friend of mine has been eyeing this gal for quite some time...and that time, the gal visits him and he visits her quite often...And things seem to be pretty normal and they both enjoyed that kind of attention....So eventually things worked out and they both became couples....Not even a month and now they are hitting the rocks already....One of the issue was that my friend doesnt enjoy she visiting him often at his room...What the hell is this people of the world...You can treat a friend better and when the same friend became your girlfriend u started to treat her like shit...Dude grow uplarrr....My prediction is this...with so many people opting to this kind of attitudes....DIVORCE after marriage is not a taboo issue anymore... We ASIANS are not much of DIVORCE-type people but the westerners are..Looking at the current younger generation who are influenced by wesetern agendas....I guess the sanctity of marriage is dead even before it began...Now i know why i call it stupid ceremony...Cus it doesn't help anyone to a stronger bond...Its our mind that decides what happens in a relationship....
A mind that was not matured enough to think...a mind that doesnt feel anything over the word said spattered.... Non give a shit these days....I am one of the victim of a cruel mind but still i love the gal...Kinda stupid....but mate the gal i love with all my heart cannot be a bitch within a split second....Then what's the idea of me confessing "I LOVE YOU" to her in the first place............I want to love her and not hate her for a second... Circumstances might influence us but it shouldn't change us... Never say "I LOVE YOU", unless u r determined to prove to the world that u really do...Wake up to lose everything u gained and be prepared to stay awake for LOVE is when being awake is deffinitely better than being asleep..... When Fantasy and Reality Cross Paths.....The mind awakens to a new wrath....