Saturday, April 15, 2006

As VIRGINITY becomes non-issue

I am a man of many thoughts. Gotta say I like to cook up something everywhere I go, different flavour at times though same location. That is why at times I just take a break from blogging as I am consumed by too many things to express, but it is inevitable that sooner or later I will deffinitely come back to my blogging scene. And here I am again writing. And today people as usual I am going to bring some heavy thinking into the brains of many. (or so I hope).

See the title on top, yup guess it figures what the heck I am gonna scribble along today. So yeah there was I...don't ask where alrite...I was just there and thinking some stuffs through when something a friend of mind told once knocked me back to earth Will tell later what she said alright.. VIRGINITY. I remember as my parents brought me up, they didn't exactly tell me that sex before marriage was wrong....they were not really the kind that wanted to talk about sex with their kids. I just grew up eventually finding out what is black and white.

But along the way things changed. They become more and more out of what I thought was a genuine world. No...it doesn't work that way. People give into temptations easily...and as the time goes it is becoming a norm. People often mistake sex with love. I recall a friend of me once told me (this is a different friend telling different stuff)...Well more like he asked me a q??? If sex got nothing to do with love, then why do they call it make-love. I was dumbfounded and got no reply to this except to curse those englishmen who came up with that term. So we as humans, as always take things that was said for granted and justify ourselves with no sense of guilt.

Kudos for us you say?? Honestly I dont know where I stand. I mean I enjoy it, but then Ialso feel guilty. Even the nicest looking person tend to give in. And the worse part is to see the one we love get deflowered by the one that dumps them once they got bored of teh same flavour. And then a new same cycle gets activated. But its not like no one knows the truth, yet they still succumb to it. Being a Christian and all, I know several christian bros and sis who are very pius and all so godly, but even they cant resist the burning sensation. So what respect I give them??? My middle finger is self explanatory I guess.

I have seen people who question me " so what", "whats wrong with it?", "everyone does it, so why not?" etc etc....Sex and virginity carries no weight these days...

But I have a story....the part about a friend of mind told something. Well she didn't tell me, she said it to another girl, I was just listening...Lets say there was this Girl A and Girl B and ME...All of us are good friends....Girl A is the wild bitch while Girl B is the mother of holyness.... So by now you guys should know that Girl A aint a virgin no more...I dont know when and I dont know with whom, so stop baggering me alrite... So anyway Girl A was pastering Girl B to go out clubbing and in fact brags about every little guy she ever did with...Complimenting some while humiliating others...Its always a one night stand for her. She was in fact suggesting Girl B to have a go sometimes and it could be fun, well painful at first. But then eventually things will become only sex without the pain. Frustrated, Girl B slammed back without much of the slamming and more of the calmness...She said " Alright I will do everything that you always do, ever do and did and done and everything. I will follow you exactly. I can be whatever you are starting tomorrow, no in fact starting at this moment ". Just about when Girl A was to smile widely thinking that her best companion has joined her team Girl B interupted her by saying "...BUT, CAN YOU BE WHATEVER I AM"...she continued " no you can't, no matter how much you try you can never gain back that one precious gift . Its a one time deal...but you preffered one night stand. You could never return to be like me and thats where I reign"..." So, when should I start being you..." Girl B in tears walked away....

Can you hear it??? The echoes of realmz....