How a relationship should be...
Honestly I am neither full of ideas in this nor am I Dr. LOVE. But I am sure averager 12 year old kid these days may find themselves in the web of relationship. Fascinating really, how something so marvelous can find a way to the heart of the young chaps...Now aint LOVE great....Its easy to teach and simple to adept to, but nevertheless hard to maintain.
From our 1st relationship we find ourselves in the midst of many failed attempt and it is always the latest will be the best. Kinda hard to imagine how at one point we call someone the one and truly, and at another point another person seem to be the one recieving all the same type of endearments. Well I guess that's what makes us human. Unless we ensure ourselves that we've got the best then there is no confidence in furthering the relationship. Though I still wonder if that kind of confidence is warranted or not. I mean no matter how much faith and trust we may shower upon, but the circle always keeps on moving. Break ups still happen and we move on. Well I havent as of now, hopefully someday..
Anyway, I really dont know how to go about in a relationship, otherwise I wouldnt have failed myself. But then I was reading the scripts from the series One Tree Hill.. The story line itself is superb and I like the way the series were shot. I mean there wasn't exageration at any point, and they merely reflect the many types of tangled roads that one has to travel in their journey of life. One Tree Hill, just a small town with a small group of people playing their characters well enough to show us a glimpse of the real world. Part of it is the relationship matter that I am impressed about. Nope... I am not saying that crossfiring or sleeping around is an act of high moral fibre, but merely trying to point out the way that any relationship is carried out. I mean the relationship between Jake and Peyton wasn't much to talk about as it was short lived. Honestly I prefered Lucas to go with Peyton, but then I am not part of the production crew to make a difference you see. Haley and Nathan are just awesome, which makes me wonder if that kind of undying devotion towards each other exist anymore. And not to forget the grandshow of Lucas and Brooke. Honestly Brooke is a anything goes kinda girl and to think how the story was developed in such way that she decided on exclusive with Lucas was superb. Plus Lucas being a great kid and all, no matter what Brooke did always had hard soft spot for Brooke.
Now overall what fascinates me the most of about how a relationship is carried out and I love the way Lucas and Brooke do it..In fact I wished most of the times that my relationship with my exes were that open as well with parents completely let us get hurt or be happy with some one we choose. You see Lucas's mother knew that Lucas was having problems with Brooke, but she didnt insist on him dumping her, in fact she insisted on him to work things out with her. Whatever the outcome maybe, the mother just wanted the son to do and learn things by himself. Plus she had complete faith on him. And there you go...how when Brooke and Lucas, whenever they meet they kiss each other in public, how spontaneously friendly is Brooke with Lucas's mother...and how her best friend Peyton and Lucas can still hang out with each other without much problems, how nobody really gives a damn about the background of each others' family, their race or relegion...etc etc...
In Malaysia, you get fined to show affection towards the one you love in public. All the night clubs ain't gonna be steamy anymore are they??? But then again I am pretty sure when it comes to kinkiness and horniness, there aint no stop sign alright. I am pretty damn sure couples are still making out in the car parked at some hidden spots. Like they care about the fine when making out is so damn bloody tempting.
Plus it seem to be a common practise by the family members to be very peculiar about race, relegion and family backgrounds. No doubt over the time things has seen its evolutions, but the old trend still tend to stick. You cant have a muslim guy going out with an Indian or a Chinese girl without the issue of Relegion to be uttered. If you are a poor kid, then automatically the family members will decide that you are unworthy of the girl, no matter how good you can be. You see, its so stressing just to be in relationship around this conservative country. I am not saying we should have no strings attached as much as wel like, but merely implicating that dating and being in a relationship shouldn't be that much of a task.
Take me for example, one of my ex - we are technically the same relegion but not the same race and that was an issue. Do you know how hard it is to date a girl as early as when you are 17 years old especially when the parents dont like not you but your kind to be precise... I mean whenever I take the girl out, she will be very cautious thinking that someone might saw her tagging with me. Yeah I mean first 2 or 3 dates I can put up with it, but it gets tiresome as the whole thing becomes a routine. I cant have a proper stress free date at all....And not to mention my last gf...That was some huge conflict for me. Even though I was excited about the fight but again things were short lived for the reasons of race....Is it me or am I born under the stars which says I am meant to date girls of different races only, cus as far as I know, I never dated my own race before....Any takers...Hahahaha...
Moving on, I so much envy the relationships in one tree hill..I mean the only aspect of conflicts exist, are based on individual behaviours and charecteristics nothing else. Now aint that how it should be.....
Can you hear it??? The echoes of realmz....
From our 1st relationship we find ourselves in the midst of many failed attempt and it is always the latest will be the best. Kinda hard to imagine how at one point we call someone the one and truly, and at another point another person seem to be the one recieving all the same type of endearments. Well I guess that's what makes us human. Unless we ensure ourselves that we've got the best then there is no confidence in furthering the relationship. Though I still wonder if that kind of confidence is warranted or not. I mean no matter how much faith and trust we may shower upon, but the circle always keeps on moving. Break ups still happen and we move on. Well I havent as of now, hopefully someday..
Anyway, I really dont know how to go about in a relationship, otherwise I wouldnt have failed myself. But then I was reading the scripts from the series One Tree Hill.. The story line itself is superb and I like the way the series were shot. I mean there wasn't exageration at any point, and they merely reflect the many types of tangled roads that one has to travel in their journey of life. One Tree Hill, just a small town with a small group of people playing their characters well enough to show us a glimpse of the real world. Part of it is the relationship matter that I am impressed about. Nope... I am not saying that crossfiring or sleeping around is an act of high moral fibre, but merely trying to point out the way that any relationship is carried out. I mean the relationship between Jake and Peyton wasn't much to talk about as it was short lived. Honestly I prefered Lucas to go with Peyton, but then I am not part of the production crew to make a difference you see. Haley and Nathan are just awesome, which makes me wonder if that kind of undying devotion towards each other exist anymore. And not to forget the grandshow of Lucas and Brooke. Honestly Brooke is a anything goes kinda girl and to think how the story was developed in such way that she decided on exclusive with Lucas was superb. Plus Lucas being a great kid and all, no matter what Brooke did always had hard soft spot for Brooke.
Now overall what fascinates me the most of about how a relationship is carried out and I love the way Lucas and Brooke do it..In fact I wished most of the times that my relationship with my exes were that open as well with parents completely let us get hurt or be happy with some one we choose. You see Lucas's mother knew that Lucas was having problems with Brooke, but she didnt insist on him dumping her, in fact she insisted on him to work things out with her. Whatever the outcome maybe, the mother just wanted the son to do and learn things by himself. Plus she had complete faith on him. And there you go...how when Brooke and Lucas, whenever they meet they kiss each other in public, how spontaneously friendly is Brooke with Lucas's mother...and how her best friend Peyton and Lucas can still hang out with each other without much problems, how nobody really gives a damn about the background of each others' family, their race or relegion...etc etc...
In Malaysia, you get fined to show affection towards the one you love in public. All the night clubs ain't gonna be steamy anymore are they??? But then again I am pretty sure when it comes to kinkiness and horniness, there aint no stop sign alright. I am pretty damn sure couples are still making out in the car parked at some hidden spots. Like they care about the fine when making out is so damn bloody tempting.
Plus it seem to be a common practise by the family members to be very peculiar about race, relegion and family backgrounds. No doubt over the time things has seen its evolutions, but the old trend still tend to stick. You cant have a muslim guy going out with an Indian or a Chinese girl without the issue of Relegion to be uttered. If you are a poor kid, then automatically the family members will decide that you are unworthy of the girl, no matter how good you can be. You see, its so stressing just to be in relationship around this conservative country. I am not saying we should have no strings attached as much as wel like, but merely implicating that dating and being in a relationship shouldn't be that much of a task.
Take me for example, one of my ex - we are technically the same relegion but not the same race and that was an issue. Do you know how hard it is to date a girl as early as when you are 17 years old especially when the parents dont like not you but your kind to be precise... I mean whenever I take the girl out, she will be very cautious thinking that someone might saw her tagging with me. Yeah I mean first 2 or 3 dates I can put up with it, but it gets tiresome as the whole thing becomes a routine. I cant have a proper stress free date at all....And not to mention my last gf...That was some huge conflict for me. Even though I was excited about the fight but again things were short lived for the reasons of race....Is it me or am I born under the stars which says I am meant to date girls of different races only, cus as far as I know, I never dated my own race before....Any takers...Hahahaha...
Moving on, I so much envy the relationships in one tree hill..I mean the only aspect of conflicts exist, are based on individual behaviours and charecteristics nothing else. Now aint that how it should be.....
Can you hear it??? The echoes of realmz....
posted by devilwitattitude at 8:42 AM
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